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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 04:37pm on 02/11/2012 under
If you cannot read this post, you have been cut.

I meant to do this a long time ago, but things got a bit hectic and I never managed the chance to sit down and go through my f-list. I don't think any of these should come as a surprise: either we haven't interacted in a long time, or we became friends within the past year or so and you never commented. I tried to exclude those who have taken a hiatus from LJ or with whom I'm friends on other social networking sites. If you think I have made a mistake, however, please let me know -- it's easy to accidentally uncheck the wrong name!
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 08:41pm on 29/01/2012 under
If you can't read this entry, you have been cut.

With the beginning of a new school semester, I thought it was time for a friends cut. It's been over a year since my last one, and a lot has changed in that time. The cut shouldn't come as a surprise, and everyone I cut hasn't used LJ in quite a while, or I've had little to no interaction with them on here or by any other means. If you a) were on an unannounced hiatus but have recently returned, b) think I cut you by mistake (definitely happens!), c) were surprised to find that you were cut, or d) have any other concerns, please leave a comment and we can sort it out. (Eep, this sounds so formal!!)

I wish you all the best. <3
Mood:: 'guilty' guilty
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 08:41pm on 29/01/2012 under
If you can't read this entry, you have been cut.

With the beginning of a new school semester, I thought it was time for a friends cut. It's been over a year since my last one, and a lot has changed in that time. The cut shouldn't come as a surprise, and everyone I cut hasn't used LJ in quite a while, or I've had little to no interaction with them on here or by any other means. If you a) were on an unannounced hiatus but have recently returned, b) think I cut you by mistake (definitely happens!), c) were surprised to find that you were cut, or d) have any other concerns, please leave a comment and we can sort it out. (Eep, this sounds so formal!!)

I wish you all the best. <3
Mood:: 'guilty' guilty
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 11:42pm on 03/10/2010 under
I was looking over my f-list and I realized that there were several people on here whom I've known for a while, but with whom I've actually had very little contact. As such, I'm doing a small friends cut. Please don't take it the wrong way. I think you're all amazing (otherwise I wouldn't have friended you in the first place!), but I've realized that with many of my LJ friendships consist of the occasional comment about a television show we both like, and I feel that such a relationship just isn't fair to either of us. 

I also cut a couple of people who have been inactive for several months (without posting a hiatus). If you were on hiatus and would like me to re-add you, please let me know!

I wish you all the best.
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 11:42pm on 03/10/2010 under
I was looking over my f-list and I realized that there were several people on here whom I've known for a while, but with whom I've actually had very little contact. As such, I'm doing a small friends cut. Please don't take it the wrong way. I think you're all amazing (otherwise I wouldn't have friended you in the first place!), but I've realized that with many of my LJ friendships consist of the occasional comment about a television show we both like, and I feel that such a relationship just isn't fair to either of us. 

I also cut a couple of people who have been inactive for several months (without posting a hiatus). If you were on hiatus and would like me to re-add you, please let me know!

I wish you all the best.
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 08:24pm on 04/05/2010 under
If you can't read this entry, I'm afraid you've been cut.

I am so, so sorry, guys. This time I had to cut more than just the "you haven't been around in a while" people. My f-list has become WAY too large for me to handle, and it's taking its toll. There are several of you who have been on my f-list for several months now, yet I feel like we know nothing about each other. Part of it is definitely my fault, and for that I apologize. As I'm sure you've noticed, my fandoms have changed quite a bit in the past couple of years. If a fandom that no longer interests me is the only thing keeping us together at this point, it's unlikely that we're going to form a relationship, and that's not fair to either of us.

Please remove me from your lists as well. Again, I'm really sorry, and I wish you all the best.

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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 08:24pm on 04/05/2010 under
If you can't read this entry, I'm afraid you've been cut.

I am so, so sorry, guys. This time I had to cut more than just the "you haven't been around in a while" people. My f-list has become WAY too large for me to handle, and it's taking its toll. There are several of you who have been on my f-list for several months now, yet I feel like we know nothing about each other. Part of it is definitely my fault, and for that I apologize. As I'm sure you've noticed, my fandoms have changed quite a bit in the past couple of years. If a fandom that no longer interests me is the only thing keeping us together at this point, it's unlikely that we're going to form a relationship, and that's not fair to either of us.

Please remove me from your lists as well. Again, I'm really sorry, and I wish you all the best.

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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 11:41pm on 30/03/2010 under
Lately the amount of people on my f-list with whom I've had zero interaction has felt really overwhelming. While I really hate having to do this, I'm afraid if you can't see this post you've been cut.

I cut people based on the following criteria: 
a. You haven't been active in a while and you hadn't made a post about going on hiatus or something similar
b. Neither one of us have commented on either's journal much (if at all)  (if I recently added you then you have nothing to worry about)
c. You've been on my f-list for ages yet I feel like we're still strangers

I'm as much at fault for the above reasons (it takes two to form a relationship after all), so I'm also cutting people if I know that I'm just not able to be the LJ friend they deserve.

If you feel like you want to try again or if you've simply been away for a while and forget to make a post about it, PLEASE leave me a comment (comments will be screened).

Much love to everyone, and I truly am sorry about this.
Mood:: 'uncomfortable' uncomfortable
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 11:41pm on 30/03/2010 under
Lately the amount of people on my f-list with whom I've had zero interaction has felt really overwhelming. While I really hate having to do this, I'm afraid if you can't see this post you've been cut.

I cut people based on the following criteria: 
a. You haven't been active in a while and you hadn't made a post about going on hiatus or something similar
b. Neither one of us have commented on either's journal much (if at all)  (if I recently added you then you have nothing to worry about)
c. You've been on my f-list for ages yet I feel like we're still strangers

I'm as much at fault for the above reasons (it takes two to form a relationship after all), so I'm also cutting people if I know that I'm just not able to be the LJ friend they deserve.

If you feel like you want to try again or if you've simply been away for a while and forget to make a post about it, PLEASE leave me a comment (comments will be screened).

Much love to everyone, and I truly am sorry about this.
Mood:: 'uncomfortable' uncomfortable
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posted by [personal profile] hmsharmony at 07:47pm on 08/11/2009 under
I can't believe I'm doing this. I honest to God can't believe I'm doing this, but I'm afraid if you can't read this post, you've been cut.

Like many of you my life has been crazy, and I'm finding that I have way too many friends (I actually don't have that many compared to some, but for me, as someone who had less than twenty a year ago, it's quite a lot). If I cut you it's probably because we never made any contact beyond "Hey, want to be friends?" or you've been MIA for months now (not counting hiatuses). I feel there are a lot of people on my list about whom I know absolutely nothing, and I don't think it's fair to either one of us.

If you feel like you want to try again or if you've simply been away for a while, or you just in general want to remain friends, PLEASE contact me. I'd be more than willing to add you back. Like I said, a lot of it is about me feeling like I've let you down.
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